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The Science of Gratitude: A Simple Practice to Transform Relationships
Kevin Mallon

By: Kevin Mallon on November 28, 2024

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The Science of Gratitude: A Simple Practice to Transform Relationships

Health & Aging  |  Thrive Wellness

According to groundbreaking research, practicing gratitude isn't just good for our spirits. It also changes our brains and bodies in positive, measurable ways.

The Power of Thank You

Scientific studies reveal that expressing and receiving gratitude can:

  • Reduce anxiety and stress
  • Strengthen our immune system
  • Improve heart health
  • Enhance brain function
  • Boost overall well-being

What's most exciting is these benefits are available to everyone. Age or circumstance doesn't matter! You don't need special equipment. You don't need to do strenuous exercise. You just need a few minutes of time and an open heart.

A Simple but Powerful Practice

Based on the latest research, I'd like to share a simple gratitude practice that you can easily incorporate into your daily life. Instead of merely listing things we're thankful for, this science-based approach is more focused and potentially more powerful.

Here's how to do it:

  • Choose Your Story: Think of a meaningful time when:
    • Someone thanked you sincerely for something you did, OR
    • You witnessed someone expressing gratitude to someone else
  • Write Your Anchors: Jot down three or four notes about your memory:
    • How you felt before the moment
    • How you felt afterward
    • Any details that made the moment meaningful
  • Daily Practice: Take 1-5 minutes to:
    • Read your memory notes
    • Close your eyes and feel that experience of gratitude
    • Let yourself fully appreciate that moment
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Making It Work for You

The beauty of this practice is its flexibility. You can do it:

  • Any time of day that works for you
  • Sitting in your favorite chair
  • Before joining friends for dinner
  • While enjoying your morning coffee
  • Before bed

Aim to practice three times per week. That's all it takes to start experiencing benefits!

Why This Works

Our bodies and brains are designed to benefit from positive social connections. When we practice gratitude in this way, we activate circuits in our brain that:

  • Calm our stress response
  • Strengthen our sense of well-being
  • Help us feel connected to others
  • Support better brain function

I invite each member of our communities —residents, family members, and team members—to try this simple practice. Take just a few minutes, three times this week, to experience the power of gratitude. Notice how it affects your mood. Notice how it affects your interactions with others. Notice your overall sense of well-being.

Remember, this isn't about forcing positive thoughts or denying life's challenges. This is about tapping into a natural human capacity that science shows can enhance our health and happiness at any age.

 

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About Kevin Mallon

Kevin Mallon is the Corporate Director of Thrive Wellness for Presbyterian Senior Living and leads the Healthy Living Team at Pine Run Village. “I have a deep, internal joy for helping people make progress. I believe that a focus on growth and learning is what keeps our souls burning, and is at the core of true well-being. People shine the brightest when we come together to uplift others. This positive, common mission creates meaningful experiences and life-long bonds.” Kevin has forged his fitness and wellness expertise through working with older adults and meeting them with presence and attention, while building a supportive atmosphere, open to possibilities and living at an optimal level. Being a 22-year member of the Senior Exercise Professionals of PA, has allowed Kevin to collaborate with leading professionals on creating dynamic wellness environments that drive people to strive and live well. His degree is in Exercise and Sports Science from Ursinus College and is a certified Aquatic Facility Operator (AFO). Kevin’s is dedicated, through 25 years of experience in senior living, to working with, and empowering older adults to cultivate resiliency and pursue their passions and their unique abilities. He views each person as the captain of their own ship that he can help serve as an advocate in mind, body and spirit. Kevin, a certified rescue diver, spends warm weather weekends at the shore, with his wife and three children, scuba-diving shipwrecks off the Jersey coast for exploration, as well as spear-fishing and lobster catching.